Self-care for new mums with PPD isn't about indulgence — it's about survival and mental stability. Here's how to build a practical, daily care routine when you're running on empty.

Nutrition

  • Aim for simple, regular meals.

    • Smoothies, eggs, oatmeal, and wholegrain toast are fast and nourishing.

  • Stay hydrated.

    • Keep a water bottle nearby, especially during night feeds.

Sleep

  • Nap when the baby sleeps — even short rests help.

  • Trade nighttime shifts with your partner if possible.

  • Try not to “catch up” on chores during nap windows — rest is the priority.

Gentle Movement

  • Try a five-minute walk - getting outside, even briefly, can help regulate your mood. Don't aim for a workout; just aim for fresh air.
  • Do simple stretches - gently stretching your neck, shoulders, and back can release physical tension tied to stress.

Emotional Care

  • Limit isolation.

    • Invite a friend over or chat with someone by phone.

  • Use grounding techniques.

    • Hold something warm (a mug of tea), touch a textured surface, or take deep breaths.

  • Journal briefly.

    • Write one word or sentence about your day.

Seek Support

  • Let your partner, a friend, or health visitor know what you’re going through.

  • You don’t need to “be strong.” You need care — just like your baby does.

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